So the socks currently on the needles - which I spent a quite a bit of the drive up and down the road to yoga camp - and sock 1 is nearly finished - were tried on last night and they are too small.
So instead of unpicking and starting again I am just going to cast on another.
Choices are green malabrigo for Kai - Mei or next in line in my personal sock club the knittery 4ply sock in blue...
or just bed
perhaps the last option is wining now and I can think socks in the morning